DISCUSSION

De-escalation Tactics

    – De-escalation Tactics

    – Avoid techniques that are overt and agitating, as they can escalate the situation.
    – Choose movements that are more casual and not obviously aggressive.
– Avoid moving the contact point where possible especially with tension or force because that signals that you are about to do something.
    – Close the distance while facing the same direction as the opponent, which is psychologically less confrontational than a direct face-off.
    – Always choose the non-escalating when the option is available..
    – Instead of showing agitation, sometimes talking calmly while smiling can have a calming effect.

“Yes, and…”

When asked about a product, an engineer will most likely stick to the facts and specs, e.g., “We are using the best material we can find…” or “The team spent 10 years developing the best process…” In contrast, a salesperson will establish common ground with the audience and address key concerns from the customer’s perspective. For example: “We have a 30-day money-back guarantee…” or “We will take away your old appliance, provide a morning or afternoon delivery window, and call 30 minutes before arrival…”

The way we communicate can easily change the outcome of a situation. If your goal is to de-escalate rather than engage in a struggle or fight, both your body language and your words can significantly influence the result. One example discussed was “Yes, and…” versus “No, but.”

Speed Over Power

We used the example of fire trucks. We may have the most advanced fire truck stationed in the UBC area, but if a fire breaks out in Coquitlam during rush hour, the building will likely burn down before the truck arrives.

This analogy illustrates that, when striking, people often pull their arms back in an attempt to generate a powerful punch. However, the time spent preparing allows the target to move or even hit first. It is critical not to telegraph your intent, even in simple techniques such as escaping from a wrist grab.

“Tagging”

Anyone who has watched boxing will be familiar with the concept of a “feint.” We choose to use the term “tag” instead, as it is broader and can encompass a wider range of similar ideas.

“Tagging” refers to any action that causes a momentary freeze or disruption in an opponent’s attention, intention, or movement.

This concept can be applied across all interactions, whether dealing with one or multiple opponents. The effectiveness of a tag depends heavily on timing and the smoothness of execution.

For example, you might apply a slight pull to draw your opponent toward you, then push sharply as they instinctively pull back to regain balance. In this case, the initial pull functions as the “tag,” creating the reaction that sets up the follow-up action.

SCENARIOS

What if…

When attempting to break free from someone’s grip, it is important to anticipate potential reactions and be prepared to adapt accordingly.

The scenario we worked on in class involved a “low, across-the-centerline natural grip.” As you turn your wrist and fingers to draw around the opponent’s wrist, the opponent may rotate their wrist in the same direction to maintain control.

You will notice that, even after the twist, their grip can remain tight. In this situation, you need to find a way to break free without resetting your position.

Hint: Adjust your “crowbar” by reinforcing it with your thumb and applying strength from a different angle.

EXERCISES

Thumb against the wall

Some individuals are naturally more flexible. When they “straighten” their thumb into a locked position, it may not point straight up. Instead, it can appear partially bent, with the first segment of the thumb sitting at an angle relative to the second segment rather than forming a straight line.

Strengthen your thumb to the extent that you can use it to poke at other people, you need to be mindful of your grip: the index finger need to support the thumb and the thumb should be squeezing tight against the index finger.

SIDE NOTES

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