SSD Class notes – 2026-10-08 Confederation

CONCEPTS and PRINCIPLES

As we age or get really busy with work and family life, it is important to realize that techniques based solely on your fitness and strength can be risky. Your opponent may be stronger and faster than you.

The journey of learning “effortless power” can be very interesting, especially for those who enjoy intellectual challenges and experiencing things they may not have encountered before. You are indeed learning how to use both your body and mind more efficiently.

Even though it is theoretically “effortless”, it is not really effortless to learn. This is because it is not something you have been doing all your life. In fact, some of you have told me that your default response is exactly the opposite. There is nothing wrong in training yourself to be stronger and fitter. It is just a matter of when and how you those extra resources.

Therefore, you need to put effort into training your brain to work differently.

Learning to relax is not just useful for fighting. Many people experience aches and pains because of tension, or sleepless nights because of anxiety. Learning to use relaxation in different ways can help you enjoy life differently.

I hope you all treasure what you have learned and continue with this journey.

SCENARIOS

Locks

Locks are not my primary set of tools, but they can be useful in the following ways:

  • They are a great way to discover the limitations of your joints.
  • Flexibility AND strength are both useful resources for fitness as well as for self defense.
  • Knowing how to apply and escape locks is a great way to understand mechanics, strategies, and different approaches.
  • While most people fall within a “normal range” of joint mobility, some are at either end of the spectrum (i.e., extremely tight or very flexible).

In class, we demonstrated and experimented with the following locks”

  • Pinky-up wrist lock
  • Palms-inward lock
  • Finger lock
  • Elbow lock

Handshake

Some people try to assert their dominance by squeezing your hand really hard during a handshake.

  • Thumb lock – This strategy involves relaxing your palm so that you can wiggle your hand into a position where it can grip the other person’s thumb and apply the joint lock.
  • Fourth-finger and pinky lock – When shaking hands with someone who is trying to dominate you and whom you feel you need to teach a lesson, reach out with both hands and target the person’s last two fingers. Twist them so that their palm faces upward. Practice slowly! This can really hurt.

How to hold a fist

Fold all your fingers (without the thumb) tightly down so that the fingertips touch the base of the fingers. Then curl the fingers further to form a tight fist.

Your forearm, wrist, and knuckles should form a straight line. When making contact, the impact should be focused slightly more on the index and middle finger knuckles, rather than the pinky knuckle, which is more fragile.

Causing Pain

  • Solar plexus – Most kids who have played soccer have probably been hit by a soccer ball at full speed at least once. The impact can cause the diaphragm to spasm, leaving you feeling as though you cannot breathe. A focused strike to this area can cause a person to bend over and struggle to recover for a short time.
  • Throat – Jabbing your fingers into someone’s throat can cause severe damage. From my experience, however, in many cases, simply applying pressure while firmly saying “STOP IT!” may be enough to get the desired effect.
  • Upward nose strike – A direct strike to the nose can cause a fracture. Pressure from below may cause a person to tilt their head backward to relieve the discomfort, potentially leaving them vulnerable to further attacks.
  • T-junction area – Behind the jawbone, you can find a soft-tissue area. Applying pressure to this area can cause significant pain.
  • Groin – We have all seen accidental hits to the groin cause even a big guy to drop to his knees. So yes, a hit to this area can be very painful. However, you need to be very close for it to have any chance of connecting. Furthermore, this is a well-known target because of the movies, so it is not necessarily as effective or unexpected as some people might think.
  • Mid-thigh – There is a sensitive area around the middle of the thigh where nerves can be affected. Direct impact to this area, such as from a knee, can cause significant pain.
  • Triceps grab – Grabbing the skin around the upper arm and squeezing while pulling can cause considerable pain.

Delivery of impact force (E = 1/2 m v2 ) and Pressure

TThere are a few points to keep in mind when looking at impact:

  • Looking at the formula, you can see that kinetic energy depends on mass (your body mass) and velocity (speed at the time of impact).
  • Notice that velocity is squared in the formula. This means that an increase in speed has a much greater effect on kinetic energy than the same proportional increase in mass.

When discussing impact and pressure, it is also important to consider the contact area. The same force applied over a smaller area produces greater pressure.

EXERCISES

To improve the quality of your stretches, remember the phrase “We Love Pizza, Lots of cheese” and what each bold letter represents. In class, we focused on the following areas:

  • Hamstrings
  • Inner thighs and opening up the hip joints
  • Quads and hip flexors

Static push

Static Push

This is classified as an isometric exercise. It is a great way to train your body to maintain structural integrity when delivering a push. Common mistakes include allowing force to leak through the joints instead of maintaining a connected structure.

Backward Crawl

This is a great way to develop functional arm strength. In some ways, it also works muscles similar to those used in a plank. Make sure your elbows are bent and your body stays relatively flat. Otherwise, you are simply relying on your body structure to support yourself.

Besides this basic version, there are many additional exercises you can develop from here.

SIDE NOTES

No classes are offered during the winter months. However, if you would like to stay in touch, discuss anything you may have forgotten, ask questions, or receive notifications when classes resume, I can create a WhatsApp group for this purpose.

Let me know if you are interested!

SSD Class notes – 2026-10-08 Bonsor

DISCUSSIONS

The “Doorstopper” Concept: – preserve your defensive space

In martial arts, the “doorstopper” concept means that instead of directly pushing back against an opponent’s force, you try to jam or redirect their movement so they cannot reach their intended target. When you push head-on against someone who is stronger than you, they will usually have the advantage.

If you retreat, the aggressor may take advantage of every inch of space you give up. Therefore, this concept should be applied in a way that preserves the space you need for your defense. Rather than meeting their force head-on, redirect it to the side and avoid a contest of strength.

Body Relaxation and Breathing

If you tense up your body while being pushed, you are creating a leverage advantages for the attacker. You will find that a properly relaxed body is more effective in absorbing the incoming force.

If you tense up while being pushed, you may create mechanical advantages for the attacker. A properly relaxed body can be more effective at absorbing and adapting to incoming force.

If you exhale quickly and forcefully, you may be able to absorb some of the incoming force more effectively. Furthermore, exhaling can help create space for defensive movements. However, you must be careful not to give up this space carelessly, as your opponent may take advantage of every inch you yield. Apply the doorstopper principle to maintain your defensive space.

Controlling Your Opponent’s Mind

You may be able to disrupt an attack by changing the opponent’s thought process or drawing their attention elsewhere. This could involve doing something unexpected, such as not resisting a push, introducing a new variable, such as calling out to someone, or directing their attention toward other people or things.

It is important to practise recognizing the resources already available to you. Don’t wait until you need them and then panic. The more you practise, the easier it becomes to recognize and use these resources.

SCENARIOS

Back against wall

What is the difference between being pushed when you have room to move and being pushed against a wall or onto the ground? The key difference is your ability to move.

If you tense up and fight the incoming force, simply taking steps backward may be enough to neutralize the push. However, if there are obstacles behind you, you cannot move as freely. Learning how to “find space” is therefore very important.

Tagging

The concept of “tagging” involves freezing your opponent physically or mentally.

From a physical perspective, this can mean affecting the opponent’s balance, muscle tension, or ability to move. From a mental or psychological perspective, it can involve creating pressure, triggering an overreaction, introducing fear of consequences, redirecting attention, or influencing their willingness to fight.

This goes beyond feinting, baiting, or misdirection. Through subtle actions, such as a slight shift or touch, you can influence your opponent’s posture and balance, encouraging predictable reactions or commitment to a particular direction.

Tagging extends beyond physical techniques to include an understanding of human psychology. You can disrupt an attack by changing the opponent’s thought process. This might involve doing the unexpected (e.g., not resisting a push), introducing a new variable (e.g., calling out to someone), or using reverse psychology (e.g., telling someone not to do something, knowing they may be more inclined to do it).

For example, a quick movement in one direction may trigger your opponent’s instinct to resist. This resistance will usually be in the opposite direction, and you can choose to work with that response rather than fight against it.

Pushing

Most people push using only their arms, which limits the force they can generate to the contribution of their arm muscles. In combat, our aim is to make the best use of our whole body without exposing ourselves to unnecessary risks by overcommitting.

To accomplish this, we keep our elbows locked or nearly locked, minimizing arm extension. The driving force comes from the feet, with the whole body moving as one unit toward the opponent.

The body needs to remain relaxed while releasing force, all while maintaining a vertical axis. Changes in the direction of the force are controlled through the palms and fingers.

Absorbing

Winter is coming, and we will all be wearing thicker clothes. This can affect the energy transferred during impact, meaning that even your best punch may not produce the intended result. Similarly, a thick layer of body fat can provide some cushioning against impact.

These factors need to be taken into account during combat, as they affect both your strikes and your defenses. When considering an attack, remember that different parts of the body have different levels of protection. Thick clothing may provide some cushioning, but it does not reliably protect vulnerable areas such as the head, nose, or throat. From a defensive perspective, extra clothing or body fat may offer some protection against certain impacts, but you should never assume that you can safely take more hits or afford to take greater risks.

People with well-developed abdominal muscles can tense them to help protect their internal organs from impact. However, this protection has its limits and depends on the muscles’ ability to withstand the force.

Rather than simply stiffening your muscles, you need to learn how to absorb incoming force by changing the angle of impact, relaxing your muscles, and allowing your body structure to adapt immediately. These adjustments can help dissipate the incoming force rather than allowing it to concentrate in one area.

EXERCISES

Yes, we need to continue doing the foundational exercises I have shown you in the past to improve arm, core, and leg strength, cardiovascular fitness, joint mobility, and balance.

On top of that, we need to train our ability to control different parts of the body. This means learning how to integrate them so that the whole body works as one unit, while also being able to move individual parts independently when needed.

This is a lifelong journey. The more time you invest in it, the more you will learn and the more easily and quickly you will be able to perform these movements.

The following is not an exhaustive list, but rather a collection of examples. If you are unfamiliar with any of them, please ask!

  • Finding Space Through Breathing
  • Practising the “Doorstopper” Concept
  • Step and Sink
  • Pushing Against the Wall
  • Galloping Without the Up-and-Down Movement
  • Changing Angles
  • Leg Switches
  • Fish Tail
  • Body Waves

SIDE NOTES

Do read the Confederation notes. 🙂

SSD Class notes – 2026-10-01 Confederation

DISCUSSION

Stretching

A lot of people view stretching as the goal, but really, stretching is an activity. You can have different goals, and those goals can be accomplished through stretching. Examples are:

  • Therapeutic stretches — After an injury, a physiotherapist may prescribe specific stretches to release certain muscle tightness.
  • Maintenance stretches — During a holiday, you don’t want to spend too much time stretching, but you do want to at least maintain the flexibility you already have.
  • Protective stretches — Before an active game, you want your body to be able to move through the range of motion required for your sport, helping to avoid injuries. You are not stretching to any extreme positions, but simply getting the body ready to perform through its required range.
  • Development stretches — The intention is to go beyond the flexibility that you normally have. You will be exploring new territory and a range beyond what you can normally do. This is where the phrase “Explore the last inch” applies.

We went through the details of the following stretches:

  • Neck and shoulders
  • Lower back
  • Legs and hips
    • Hamstrings
    • Groin
    • Hip flexors

CONCEPTS and PHILOSOPHIES

Magic of Yes and ..

We talked a lot about the advantages of absorbing, redirecting, and going along with the forces of the aggressor. We also talked about the need to “technically relax and calm” ourselves in a confrontation. I know that, at this point, it is not natural for you because, your whole life, you have been taught otherwise. Therefore, we experimented through wrist-lock escapes, the differences between different types of responses when you push me, and many more exercises.

Saying “YES and …” starts to blend the desirable state of response you learned from “self-defense” into your normal daily life. Think of how many times you get into an argument (fighting) with your family—kids, spouse, parents, in-laws, etc.—because you are simply using your gut response rather than a goal-oriented, strategic response.

Do give it a try. The trigger is: every time you feel irked, breathe, and then think of a better response. Once you manage to at least pause and think, you will notice that you are on the path to training this seemingly impossible reversal of a default reaction. The classes and physical drills with partners will also help blend what you learn into becoming part of who you are.

Tagging

We use “tagging” to mean creating a moment where the opponent is so distracted or disrupted that he cannot respond effectively.

A term more familiar to most people is “feint” or “trick.” I think these are too specific. They are only a small subset of the many ways you can create a freeze/misdirection effect.

An effective tag can create an opening that was not there before.

Examples include:

  • Disturbing his balance
  • A sudden loud yell
  • Blocking his vision with your palm
  • And many more

The important thing is not the particular tag. It is the effect it creates.


Importance of Play Mode

It is interesting how quickly your mental state can change—as if there is a switch in your brain.

Learn to harness that switch and you can become much more effective in dealing with people and situations.

As an experiment, I tried this with one of you using the game “slap hand.” She was surprised by the result. She described it as feeling like a shock going through her brain: suddenly alert, with work mode completely switched off.

This can also be useful in everyday life.

Getting your parents or kids to work out can be one of the hardest sells—even when you know it is good for them. Instead of talking or preaching to them, try playing with them.

(NO, I don’t mean slapping them, even though there may be some rare situations where that thought crosses your mind!)

You may get much better acceptance—and you may even have fun yourself.

You can also use play mode for yourself. Track your progress and celebrate small accomplishments. Think of the little stars kids get when they accomplish something.

It works for kids. It also works for almost everyone. You just need to be smart about it.

Focus on your goals not the noises

When confronted with a push or a punch, our attention naturally goes to the attack.

  • How do I block it?
  • How do I stop it?
  • Can I react fast enough?

This often causes us to tense up because blocking requires precision, speed, and power. Worse, we may forget that we have another tool to stop the attack: our counter.

A better way is to look at his vulnerabilities that you can target. That usually means everything EXCEPT his attack. This opens up endless options.

If you treat the attack as simply “noise,” reduce the effect of his attack and tune it out, and focus on how you can hurt him instead, your confidence will increase dramatically.

This same strategy can be applied in your daily life as well: instead of focusing on the irritation a problem creates, focus on getting to the end goal.

SKILLS & SCENARIOS

Wrist Lock

If you go onto YouTube, you can easily find many examples of wrist locks. However, quite a few are questionable because they are relatively easy to escape from.

Individual differences in flexibility, combined with differences in how the mechanics are applied, can greatly change the time and effort required to secure the lock. Some of these examples may therefore be dangerous, or simply unusable, if the attacker is stronger than you.

For us, it is important to separate two things:

  1. Entry — How do you get your opponent’s hand into the position required for the lock?
  2. Execution — Why does the lock work anatomically, and how do you efficiently and effectively secure it?

You can have many different entries into the same execution.

For many people, all these combinations are classified as different techniques. For us, they are simply different entries into the same specific lock.

In class, we experimented with three different entries:

  1. Hand on shoulder — same side
  2. Hand on elbow — same side
  3. Wrist grab — same side

The goal is not to memorize three techniques. It is to understand the entry → execution relationship.

Cannot Be Lifted Individual

We experimented with two men trying to lift a female who was much lighter than either of them.

When she tightened up, it was relatively easy for them to overcome her body weight and lift her.

However, when she was instructed to relax and gently wiggle her shoulders and body, she suddenly felt much heavier and became almost impossible to lift.

The wiggling serves two purposes:

  1. Absorb the lifting force — rather than resisting the force directly.
  2. Prevent a firm grip — the constant movement makes it difficult for the lifters to establish a stable grip from which they can generate power.

This is a good example of why so many of our defensive skills are based on two things:

Relaxation + understanding mechanics.

This is counterintuitive and certainly not our default response. That is why it requires practice.

The goal is not simply to learn a technique. It is to train your body to respond differently when force is applied.

SIDE NOTES

I hope you will try to read the notes from Bonsor. Ask questions if you are curious.

SSD Class notes – 2026-10-01 Bonsor

DISCUSSIONS

Posture and Confidence Projection – The best defense is to avoid being picked as a target. Do maintain an upright, non-slouched posture. Project calm confidence without looking tense or aggressive. Stay alert yet relaxed. Good posture can make you less likely to be identified as an easy target and may help prevent trouble before it starts.

De-escalation and Option Retention: Prioritize de-escalation over escalation; retain choices (e.g., open palm, smile, “let’s go for coffee”) especially in settings where violence is not tolerated e.g. if you are in a long-term care center. Furthermore, eye pokes and groin kicks can be dangerous even in class doing it “slow” – accidents do happen.

Teaching Mindset and Class Philosophy: Every class matters because at a minimum, participants will learn that it is possible to defend yourself even when the other person is stronger. Students may face very challenging environments but knowing that you can make them pay will at least give you a bit of satisfaction. Understanding the principles behind different solutions is very important in my mind because the actual situation can differ a bit. You have to understand to be able to make the technique yours during those challenging times.

Mind and Body – Appreciate how you can work your body through the mind is like putting you in “turbo” mode. Our “Effortless Power” approach aims to deliver the most without the need to train 7 days a week.

If you count on just your muscles, you will need to be physically stronger than the attacker to win. However, we do not want to become professional fighters nor become Arnold Schwarzenegger. Up to now, you probably had not had many actual fights under your belt and you probably want to keep it that way.

My goal is to keep the classes interesting as well as practical. If you are never going to use what you have learned, is that being practical? I want to teach you things that can be used strategically BOTH in fights as well as in your daily life. I want you to understand everything so that you can adapt it to suit your purpose.

Relaxation is a multi-billion dollar industry for a good reason. Our techniques depends on your ability to relax and not based off tension. Knowing how to move your body structure efficiently, how to leverage off your body weight to generate more striking power, how to cause pain through understanding of human body, how to simplify coordination of so many body parts through right visualization and focus. Being able to apply what you have learned positively in your daily life is what I am hoping for.

SCENARIOS

Strategic Body Positioning: This refers to adjusting your stance and position relative to an opponent to gain a tactical advantage. The core purpose is to move from a confrontational face-to-face stance to a safer, more advantageous sideways position, changes the opponent’s focus while minimizing the effectiveness of their direct attacks like punches.

Wrist Lock Mechanics (Vertical Palm): This is a specific joint lock technique focused on controlling and applying pressure to an opponent’s wrist. The execution requires forcing the opponent’s palm into a vertical position (pinky finger up), establishing their wrist as a stable pivot point, and then using your entire body’s motion (raising your spine) to rotate their palm around that pivot, causing pain and control without needing to overpower them with arm strength.

Amplify your power using the feet as pivot and hip as engine: Treat the feet as the pivot point; and use your whole body to create an amplified effect through leverage against your opponent.

Neutrality and Timing of Delivery: Stay neutral until delivery is necessary; relax while absorbing or redirecting a push, then project force from the center with focused tension only during the strike or output.

EXERCISES

Back Rounding as Warm-ups: Warm-ups establish mobility and the ability to round the back appropriately; a straight, rigid back may create leverage against yourself, whereas controlled rounding supports absorb-and-project mechanics.

Body Curling for Reach and Delivery: Using a subtle spinal curl increases reach and improves force delivery by engaging whole-body mechanics rather than isolated limb movement; maintain a neutral center while projecting force through relaxation.

SIDE NOTES

I think there is value for you to read the notes for the classes in Confederation. Please give it a try and let me know what you think.

Practice Structure and Early Arrival: Arrive 15 minutes early to practice with different partners and materials, building non-natural relaxation skills and structural sensitivity through varied drills.

Safety and Hygiene Protocols: Use hand sanitizer and wash hands when using shared pads; ensure blocking or containment during squeeze tests to avoid sanitizer flowing through equipment.

Individual Variation and Partner Switching: Train with different partners to feel varied grips and tensions; if the easiest version of a technique doesn’t work, the harder ones likely won’t; switch partners to adapt technique.

SSD Class notes – 2026-09-24 Confederation

ADMINISTRATIVE

We are halfway through the Fall season program already. It seems like having only six classes seems to be rather rushed. If you are ever late because of traffic or whatever the reason, do not be shy, please do still come in. If you miss a class, do use these notes – ultimately, it is more for you than it is for me. 🙂

KEY CONCEPTS

Inducing Pain

You are in a self defense class. While I aim to defuse the situation as much as is possible, it is important to realize if defusing the situation doesn’t work, you have no other option but to escalate.

The following is the list of options to handle the encounter (not all options are available in every situation):

  • Avoid being a target by projecting confidence, resourcefulness and alertness. Alertness gets you prepared for trouble.
  • Round up available resources. For example, walk towards places with people or where you can be seen, any keys or pens in your pocket? Don’t be shy or embarrassed about attracting attention.
  • Ultimately, there may be situations where you have to hurt him to get him to stop.
    – You must know what hurts,
    – You must make that tough decision, and
    – You must have the ability to cause serious damage.

Taking Impact

If you hit a fully inflated basketball, you will feel that it is hard and that it can hurt your hand. In contrast, a deflated basketball is soft and yields when you hit it.

When you are hit in the chest, you want to breathe out quickly and forcefully, allowing your chest and rib cage to yield as much as possible to the incoming force—similar to a deflated basketball.

Notice in the following animation how the rib cage appears to fold downward. This downward movement helps create the necessary space between your chest and the opponent’s attacking arm. This can be especially useful when you are pressed against a wall, where you cannot simply move backward to create space.

SKILLS & SCENARIOS

Wrist Lock Against Hand on shoulder

When you are facing your opponent and they place a hand on your shoulder, your objective is to get free while gaining control of the situation.

One option is to raise your arm all the way up. Your shoulder will naturally rise with the movement. Allow the shoulder to rise and press it toward your own face without tilting your head.

Your opponent hand will be retained in a vertical position between your face and shoulder. You will notice that their hand conforms to the surface of your shoulder and therefore vertically oriented, with the pinky finger toward the top. At this point, add your other hand to secure their wrist so that it cannot slide away.

You can then rotate their wrist while keeping the pivot point in place. This can create significant pain and stress on the wrist, so practice this very carefully and with minimal force. Your partner should be able to release or signal immediately if the pressure becomes uncomfortable.

Two-Handed Grip on a Single Forearm — Low

If the aggressor holds your arm with both hands, it can be difficult to get free using muscle strength alone. The common reaction is to yank backward. However, this can trigger his whole-body involvement, making it even harder to escape.

You can, of course, resort to punching and kicking, but that may not be your intent. Your techniques and choices should be scalable. Punching and kicking are not easily scalable: once you start, there may be no going back.

A much gentler option is to project toward the fingertips, use your wrist as a pivot, and lower your elbow using your entire body without moving the pivot point. The amplification ratio can be quite effective and should work against many people without requiring a great deal of muscular force.

Again, once you are free, take control and move to a strategic position.

2 vulnerable pain points

Sometimes, you may have tried every reasonable option, but the aggressor simply will not let go. At that point, we may need to introduce a higher level of pain as a deterrent.

There is an important distinction: minor pain may simply irritate an aggressor, while sufficiently strong pain can deter without necessarily causing permanent injury. The objective is to create an opportunity to disengage and get to safety, not to cause unnecessary injury.

In class, we explored two additional vulnerable areas besides the groin and eyes:

  • Solar Plexus — If you bend your index finger into a phoenix-eye fist and apply pressure to your own solar-plexus area, you can quickly appreciate how sensitive this area can be. If you played soccer as a child, you may remember that taking a ball directly to this area can temporarily make it difficult to breathe.
  • TMJ Area — The area around the temporomandibular joint (TMJ), near the corner of the jaw, contains sensitive nerves and soft tissue. The general target is the softer tissue beneath the jawbone near the joint, where controlled pressure can produce significant discomfort.

De-stabilize your opponent (via Pushhand / Tui Shou (推手) practice)

When a person loses their balance, their ability to attack is severely affected. Learning how to absorb force while simultaneously destabilizing your opponent is therefore a valuable training method.

This exercise of discovering your own balance as well as your opponent’s balance is often called Push Hands, or Tui Shou (推手).

We experimented with it a little in class and gained first-hand experience of what it feels like to destabilize someone without using a lot of force.

Guard Stance and Angles: By default, you should maintain an offset stance so that one side is leading. Keep the shoulders and hips aligned over the feet along a diagonal line, so that you are not facing your opponent squarely.

Both elbows should be bent to approximately ninety degrees relative to the upper arms. Keep your fingers pointing outward toward your opponent.

Tuck your chin so that your forehead is forward—not your nose or chin. Avoid allowing the elbows to flare outward, both to protect the ribs and to maintain readiness.

Target Movement vs. Blocking: The core defensive principle is to prioritize moving the target (your body) over blocking. Blocks may fail if they are initiated too late or against a stronger force. Even one inch of target movement can change the outcome.

Rotating the body forty-five degrees can redirect the force immediately and reduce its impact by 50%. If you keep your hands busy simply blocking, the aggressor faces no threat and therefore has less reason to stop or hesitate.

EXERCISES

Squat

A low squat can be quite taxing. Our version does not involve bouncing up and down, helping to reduce unnecessary stress on the knees. Instead, we stay in a deep squat position, with the thighs almost parallel to the ground.

Hold the position until you feel the muscles begin to burn and your legs start to shake. When you reach that point, begin a slow count of eight, then slowly return to a standing position.

This exercise develops the strength and endurance of the thigh muscles. We do not aim for a specific duration or number of counts because everyone has a different starting point. My strategy is to let your body tell you where that point is. When you reach the point where you are struggling but can safely persist a little longer, you are also training your brain’s ability to push a little further—sensibly and without forcing it.

Backward Crawl

Instead of simply crawling backward, this week we will keep the arms bent during the crawl. You will find that adding just this one detail increases the level of difficulty considerably.

Bicycle hands

Instead of doing it exactly as we did last week, this week we want the knees to remain bent. The power driving you forward should not come from simply taking casual walking steps, but from using the leg muscles while maintaining bent knees.

SIDE NOTES

You may find our Seniors Corner YouTube channel helpful, especially for topics such as fall prevention and what to do if you fall.

Please take a look, give the videos a thumbs up, and subscribe if you find them useful. It will help the channel reach more seniors.

If you have older parents or family members, please consider sharing the videos with them as well.

Seniors Corner – MartialGym

SSD – Class notes 2026-09-24 Bonsor

DISCUSSION

  1. Target Movement vs. Blocking: The core defensive principle is to prioritize moving the target (your body) over blocking. Blocks may fail if they are initiated too late or against a stronger force. Even one inch of target movement can change the outcome. Rotating the body forty-five degrees redirects the force immediately and reduce its impact by 50%. If you keep your hands busy simply blocking, the aggressor faces no threat and therefore has less reason to stop or hesitate.
  2. Relaxation and Breathing to Create Space: Use exhalation and rib-cage “hollowing” to create internal space, like a balloon, reducing the transmission of impact. Relax the chest and shoulders so that force can dissipate rather than being resisted directly.
  3. Perpendicular vs Parallel Target Surfaces: If the target surface is parallel to the incoming line of force (for example, the direction of a straight punch), the impact is minimized. Avoid presenting surfaces perpendicular to the incoming force, as that will maximize its impact. Never offer an easy surface that is perpendicular to the incoming hit.
  4. Door-Stopper Principle: Aside from finding space from within your own body, a secondary contact to help misguide or stop the incoming force (“door jam/door stopper”) before yielding space, prevents the attacker from continuously occupying any retreat or space you give up.
  5. Staying Upright and Situational Safety: At this point, you are a long way from doing ground fighting. Therefore, stay on your feet and avoid going to the ground, especially when facing multiple opponents. Being on the ground severely limits your mobility and can increase the risk considerably.
  6. Rotation and Choice of Axes: Most people assume by default that all rotations should have the axis at the center. In combat, however, we may choose a horizontal or vertical axis. Aside from the central vertical line, we can also place the axis at the rear shoulder or through the front shoulder. Do you recall that for some of the wrist escapes, we rotate the arm around a horizontal axes through the wrist?
    You should also avoid turning from the waist only without support from the hips. While turning from the waist does increase upper-body power as oppose to using only arms, you gain greater structural power when you use the hips together with the rest of the body.
  7. Diaphragm, Rib Cage, and Spinal Mobility: Train diaphragm lowering, rib cage folding and expansion, and spinal mobility to generate protective “hollow” and structural adaptability; coordinate head turns without counter-rotations.

SKILLS & SCENARIOS

Taking impacts and guard

  1. Practice changing the surface angle to approximately forty-five degrees against a partner throwing a slow, straight punch. Prioritize breathing and body movement over blocking.Drill “guard as insurance”: keep your hands up, but focus on evasive movement first.Relaxation and Breathing to Create Space:
  2. Exhale to create internal space using the “balloon” analogy.
  3. Relax the chest and create space around the neck rather than tensing or compressing the area.
  4. Do not tense or curl the shoulders. Instead, focus on movement through the spine.

Rib cage “folding” technique

  1. Rounding the back/spine can create space. However, there are situations where this is not possible—for example, when your back is against a wall, when your back is already stretched and arched, or when you are lying on the ground.
  2. Exhaling creates internal space, allowing you to avoid rebounding when you are cornered.
  3. When there is no physical space available (e.g., when you are against a wall), exhalation and rib-cage “hollowing” create internal space. Relaxation reduces the transmission of force. Like a deflated basketball, a yielding surface prevents rebound and reduces impact. A relaxed chest also reduces the transmission of force.

Guard Stance and Angles: By default, you should maintain an offset stance so that one side is leading. Keep the shoulders and hips aligned over the feet along a diagonal line, so that you are not facing your opponent squarely.

Both elbows should be bent to approximately ninety degrees relative to the upper arms. Keep your fingers pointing outward toward your opponent.

Tuck your chin so that your forehead is forward—not your nose or chin. Avoid allowing the elbows to flare outward, both to protect the ribs and to maintain readiness.

Grip Release and Localization of Force: For overhand grips, localize your resistance against the smallest part of his body that you can effectively influence, in this case the thumb.

When you point your fingers, direct them toward his forearm rather than toward an area where he has enough space to move.

Apply the weight of your body and elbow rather than relying on arm strength. Avoid fighting directly against his larger muscle groups or body weight.

HOME EXERCISES

Breath out and hollow: Stand with your back against a wall. Exhale and “hollow” the chest/rib cage to create space without moving your feet or shoulders. Place your fingers on your chest to feel the movement of the rib cage. Your range of motion will increase over time.

Guard: Practice picking up your guard from a natural standing position. Check the angle of your body, arm angles, muscular tension, finger position, head position, chest tension, etc.

Projection: The power of the mind was demonstrated during class. Practice it daily because it is one of the most neglected assets you probably have never tapped into.

Establish your cardio and muscle baseline: While we favor effortless strategies and techniques, you do need a certain degree of fitness to be able to protect yourself and others. This includes being physically capable of handling simple but demanding situations, such as carrying an injured child to safety.

SIDE NOTES

Arrive slightly early when possible—around 15 minutes—to warm up. Warm up the spine, shoulders, legs, and hips.

Class notes are usually ready by Sunday evening. Jot down any questions and, when possible, ask them before class.

SSD – Class notes 2026-09-17 Confederation

KEY CONCEPTS

Take the Target Away / Blocking Is Bad

For defense, if you try to block every attack one by one, you are bound to miss some. Furthermore, the blocking mentality is flawed because a significant part of the movement is non-productive until your arm actually makes contact with the attack. Even then, you cannot be sure that you will be able to move the attack away.

A more productive approach is to move the target away in any direction. Every inch of movement or turning contributes toward the goal of reducing the damage.

Make Yourself Smaller and Angle Yourself to the Front

Everyone knows that if the target is large, it is much easier to hit than a small target. As a general strategy, you should therefore tuck yourself in slightly and angle your body so that a straight attack will naturally be deflected.

On top of the angling, if you make unpredictable movements in different directions, it becomes even more difficult for someone to land a solid punch on you.

Conserve energy

When you watch a group of people walking normally, you will see differences in their movement mechanics. We generally don’t tell someone, “You are doing it wrong,” until they develop a problem, such as lower-back pain, knee issues, or balance problems.

In martial arts, as you age, you know that your muscle mass, speed, and cardiovascular capacity will naturally decline over time. It is therefore important to explore ways to make our movements more efficient.

In class, we experimented with a hopping style of leg switching. Everyone was panting within a minute or so. Then we tried it with a slightly different method: we “hopped” without trying to jump upward. Attempting to jump up not only uses more energy, but also slows you down at the same time.

Relax to absorb the incoming force vs tensing up to resist

When someone pushes you, most people’s instinct is to tense up to resist and fight back. However, because of leverage, you are actually making your opponent’s push more effective. You should instead relax, breath out and allow your body to turn or lean back slightly with his force. You will find that his attack is absorbed and you will be able to stand your ground without tension.

Relative speed

Having muscles do help you run faster. You must do conditioning consistently to raise your base level fitness. However, the bully is usually stronger and bigger than you and that is why he picked you.

To improve the probability of a hit landing on the intended target, your strikes need to be fast. The following are some of the things you can do “to hit faster than your opponent”.
– hide your start time, i.e. do not telegraph
– distract where possible
– shorten the distance where possible
– relax so that you are not working against your own body

Be prepared to pay a price

Even if you are a good fighter, there is a priced to be paid even if you do win. Given that in a street situation, you do not have time to warm up, or find out more about your opponent. If you are not 100% ready with a lot of unknowns, you probably may not be performing at your best.

In a world tennis event, you do not see 6-0, 6-0s all the time. While playing tennis means you lose a point or game, in fighting, the points that you lose be give you a bloody nose or whatever. Furthermore, have you thought of the time for the after-the-fight legal entanglements? All those are prices that you pay.

Given that it is not free even if you win and even worse, you are not guaranteed success, Before you escalate, you must decide if it is really worth it. Because of this consideration, do put more effort in avoiding a fight instead of flipping that switch on easily. And if you do fight, make sure you are 100% committed to ensure he pay a hefty price to pick on you.

SPECIFIC SKILLS

Bicycle Hands – This is a continuation of last week’s drills. Take note of the following common mistakes and points of emphasis:

  • Keep your chin down – hits will land on your forehead rather than on your chin or nose.
  • Start with single strikes, slowly. Check the correctness of each strike before moving on. Rushing takes away your opportunity for self-assessment.
  • Progress from singles to combinations. After practicing the singles, do them in pairs: pop-pop, pop-pop. Then move to groups of three: pop-pop-pop, pop-pop-pop, followed by groups of four, and eventually continuous strikes.
  • Progress from slow steps to fast steps. Start with slow footwork, but eventually you should be taking fast steps with the intention of chasing your opponent down.
  • Do not move your hands side-by-side. Practice the movement as hand-over-hand, so that one hand follows the other.

Leg switches – This is a good cardio as well as mobility exercise. Whatever duration you choose, try to do 3 sets with one minute of rest between sets.

Take note of the following common errors:

Pausing between switches. There should be no rest between switches. Switch as soon as both feet land.
Wasting energy by jumping up and down. Try to maintain the same level rather than unnecessarily moving up and down.
Keeping the body static. The switches should not be done with just the feet moving. Your hips should turn together with the leg switches.
Swinging the arms in the opposite direction to the legs. The arms and legs should turn in the same direction.
Landing one foot at a time. Both feet should land at the same time.

Zhan zhuang 站桩

Zhan Zhuang is a common exercise practiced by seniors for health and conditioning purposes. It is also used by Yiquan practitioners to develop power for martial applications.

In our lineage, we also use Zhan Zhuang for healing purposes, as well as for martial power development.

In our lineage, we also use Zhan Zhuang for healing purposes,as well as for martial power development. It is a good tool to develop and understand “sinking”, “structural force” and “one thought.”

Some key concepts and reminders to keep in mind are:

  • “Blow air into the balloon”
  • “Three balls”
  • “Sinking the elbows”
  • “Relaxing the shoulders”

SIDE NOTES

Class notes for Bonsor has also been posted. Go check it out. Can you understand it? Let me know what you think.

SSD – Class notes 2026-09-17 Bonsor

DISCUSSION

Relative Distance

We experimented with changing the distance between ourself and the aggressor by having the aggressor pull while grabbing the wrist. We quickly discovered that when there is continuous tension through the grab, the technique did not feel the same. In fact, the change can be significant enough that you may find you cannot get out, or that you have to brute-force the technique to make it work. This is due to you not being able to maintain a constant distance you and the aggressor.

If however, you step forward or extend the arm to maintain the same tenson while the aggressor grabbed and pulled, then the “relative distance” and therefore the “tension” can be maintained . The escape technique will then feel more like how it was when you drilled with a static partner.

Relative Speed

It is not enough to simply move forward in response to the pull. You have to move fast enough to catch up with the aggressor’s movement. So, if the bully is stronger and faster than us, how can we compensate for the difference?

In self-defense, you do not have to be the fastest person on earth. You only have to be faster than the aggressor in that specific instance.

Furthermore, self-defense is not a sport, so do not feel embarrassed about “cheating.” The aggressor is the one creating an unfair situation by choosing to bully you. Use whatever advantage is available to you.

Here are some examples of situations where a person who is normally faster can be put at a disadvantage:

  • He is moving backward while you are moving quickly forward.
  • You do not give him advance warning, and you do something he least expects.
  • You have a shorter distance to travel.
  • He is distracted or in a position where he cannot move easily.
  • And there are many other possibilities.

SCENARIOS

Grabbed along, facing the same direction

The thumb plays a very important role in a strong grip. If you look at how a grip works, the fingers are all closing inward, not outward. Therefore, instead of resisting the expected way by trying to yank your hand out, you should press against his thumb in its weak direction.

Various Grip Escapes

We find that many of you still start an escape by “fighting” the grip, rather than first identifying the vulnerabilities of the grip you are being held with.

As the defender, you need to amplify your own resources while taking resources away from your opponent. For example, take away the space available for him to move and deflect; amplify your power by using good mechanics; and use your entire body to localize the effect onto just one finger, rather than working against his entire body weight and muscular strength.

Do NOT Lean

A lot of the time, we have the impression that if we lean into our movement, we are adding more body weight to our delivery. In reality, the mechanics work in the opposite direction.

Leaning your body at a 45-degree angle reduces the amount of your body weight that can be effectively delivered, similar to the way a hand truck or dolly is tilted when moving a heavy box.

If you keep your spine close to the vertical axis, you can use much more of your body weight in your delivery—potentially close to 100%—rather than allowing part of your weight to be directed downward or otherwise lost through your posture.

Responding to Pulls

If you tighten up when someone tries to pull you forward, you will be fighting directly against their force. You will lose if they are stronger.

Instead, you should “relax” your arm and body like a bungee cord, while guiding their force around you. The bungee-cord effect, combined with a change in direction, reduces the effectiveness of the pull because the force is no longer being applied in its original direction.

EXERCISES

Integrate training into everyday activities like going up the stairs, the push through the legs when you push the lawnmower, or walk long steps driving through every step. Do practice slow and be mindful when you are trying to learn new things or to change some old habits.

Use simple props to help you train – For example, push a static wall driving through the legs, squeeze hard with a pillow in between your legs to train your inner thighs, use a static object like the wall or a chair to see that you are not moving a pivot away from where it should be.

SIDE NOTES

Class notes for Confederation Park has been posted as well. Go check it out. Find any differences? Let me know what you think.

SSD – Class notes 2026-09-10 Confederation 

These are the class notes for the self defense class at Confederation Park.

PRINCIPLES & CONCEPTS

The Three Elements of Power: True power integrates three sources:

Biomechanics (physical movement of muscles, bones and body mass),
Psychomechanics (how mental focus and visualization alter physical execution), and
Nature & Environment (connection to the ground for stability and using relaxed, focused force). Understanding these allows one to be effective beyond raw strength.

The Principle of Relaxation vs. Muscle Tension: A core concept is that an impact effective force comes from relaxation, flow, and mental focus, not brute strength. Tensing up leads to stalemates, while a relaxed, “flow” state disrupts an opponent’s balance and expectations, making techniques more effective even against a stronger person.

Using Leverage vs. Strength: This principle focuses on using the body’s structure and pivot points (like one’s own feet) to gain a mechanical advantage. By applying force far from the pivot, a smaller person can unbalance a stronger one without engaging in a direct strength contest. This is a key reason to avoid “Point-to-Point Fighting”—a direct, strength-on-strength confrontation.

Adding Power of the Mind: We tried two experiments: One is with a straight arm projecting past the fingers, the other one is heavy elbow. Both scenarios, we compared the difference between focusing on muscles working against an incoming force vs taking your mind off the muscles but focus on the effect you are trying to create.

Strategic Positioning & Attacking to Disrupt Balance: This is a tactical principle focused on moving to a safer, more advantageous position relative to an opponent (e.g., to the side to avoid direct strikes). The goal of an attack is often not to cause injury but to disrupt the opponent’s balance and control by targeting areas that create an instinctive, destabilizing reaction.

Pushing Mechanics, Leg Drive & Energy Leaks: Effective pushing requires driving from the large muscles of the legs (thighs, glutes) with a bent back leg, not just leaning with the upper body. In fact, leaning can half the effective body weight against an opponent or object just like the mechanics of moving dolly. Structural integrity must be maintained to avoid “energy leaks,” where a joint (like the wrist) bends backward, dissipating power.

Non-telegraphed Movement: This refers to eliminating preparatory signals before an attack. The goal is to integrate stepping and pressing into a single, seamless motion so that force is delivered simultaneously with movement, giving the opponent no time to react.

Adaptability & Practical Application:
The overarching philosophy is that survival and effectiveness come from adaptation, not brute strength. The principles of leverage, balance, and efficient energy use are foundational concepts applicable not just to self-defense but also to everyday physical tasks like moving furniture or pushing a heavy door.

SPECIFIC SKILLS

Wrist Release & Grip Escape Techniques: A set of defensive techniques to escape wrist grabs by using physics and leverage. The core idea is to manipulate the opponent’s grip by relaxing, creating stress on their thumb (e.g., by pointing fingers down), and using structural alignment (e.g., lifting the elbow) to break free without muscular force.

Bicycle Hands Drill: A continuous, chain-punching drill where hands cycle in an oblong motion along the centerline. It teaches how to maintain an offensive flow, clear an opponent’s blocks, and protect one’s center by keeping the elbows down and in.

The Pendulum squeeze. Just like a pendulum, the following concepts are applied: 1) Anchor the pivot. 2) Settle downward matching your Center of Gravity with the path of a pendulum bob. 3) Just as important, make sure there are no leaks.

Palm strike to the nose: When desperate and in-close, an upward strike to the nose of the aggressor can be very effective and if done with full body power, it can actually flip him up and backwards.

Finger stab to the throat: Fingers pressed hard against an aggressor even without stabbing hard can be quite unnerving. This technique has been used against bullies in real life scenarios.

SIDE NOTES

Please try to come to class 10-15 minutes earlier if possible since the room is available. We can use it to ask questions, warm up and even do some partner drills to see if skills that worked last week still works this week.

Do let me know if the you like the class duration being 1.5 hours or do you prefer the standard one hour slots.

Does the current start time work for you or you prefer a little later because of traffic.

We are planning for the winter session at confederation. If the classes are strictly for seniors, the possibility of having snow and ice on the cold winter nights doesn’t seem to make sense for me. However, looking at the class we have now, it seems like all of you are reasonably young and capable, I am wondering if I am worrying too much. Your feedback is much appreciated.

SSD – Class notes 2026-09-10 Bonsor

DISCUSSION

Back from holidays

We have a couple of new participants and the rest of you may have been with me all the way. Thank you!

I hope you all realize that it is impossible to teach all sixty years of martial arts training in only 12 hours. Everything takes a lot of practice on your part as well as effort on my side. Remember that knowledge is like a good book, you need to read it multiple times to really enjoy it in different ways. This class is almost like the missing owner’s manual for your body.

I started the current season going through the 5 wrist grips and escapes. While all of you can verbally describe the moves required, not everybody can execute it correctly. Some of you are still yanking your hand back. Do remember we have to perfect the technique till you can do it without depending on strength and speed. During class, I taught a way to practice all these techniques anywhere, even without a partner.

Even though we don’t depend solely on muscles and speed, it is nice to have a good base layer. This season, we will emphasize on getting you stronger, improving your reaction time and making you move easily.

Explore details beyond just copying visible movements

Flashy techniques as in the movies requires a lot of preparation. Both actors know exactly what is coming and therefore is relatively safe. Even with such elaborate planning, things can still go wrong. In movies, they can do multiple takes of the same scene until it is perfect.

A lot of teachers teach movements by getting you to simply copy them. However, not everything essential to making a technique work in combat can be seen from the outside if it is not explained.

Some examples are:
– There are multiple ways to round the back – These may look very similar from the outside, but they produce very different results.
– How power is generated – The amount of power you can deliver when you are focused on muscle contraction is significantly different from what you can achieve when you use the correct visualization, such as projecting something outward.
– What stays still and what part of the body is actually moving – Once you know what to look for, you can see it. However, we are not naturally used to picking up this level of detail.
– Timing – We are used to paying attention to the starting and ending positions. We don’t usually notice whether a movement should be performed in sequence, with everything moving together, or with one part starting just before another.

SCENARIOS

5 grips to start – We start with 5 different grips to help you understand some of the key concepts of what “effortless power” means. The following are the 5 grips:
– low, across center line, hand-shake grip
– low, across center line, palms down grip
– low, on same side grip
– high, across center grip
– high, same side grip

A few key-points / concepts universal across all of the skills
– stay relaxed, using muscles and yanking escalates and usually make thinks worse.
– you cannot telegraph your intent to get away. So you must move and affect as an entire unit. You cannot prepare before you deliver.
– keep calm and while smiling, identify partner’s vulnerabilities (e.g. where is his thumb?
– project your energy from belly button through your arm and beyond the fingers to maintain intended shape or structure
– always remember the entire technique doesn’t end until you strategically reposition yourself.

Explore projection

There are three types of power: bio-mechanics, psycho-mechanics, and nature.

The projection experiment done in class lets you experience psycho-mechanics yourself, not just watching a demo. So it is very learnable and you don’t need to train ten years until qi is cultivated:
– Unbendable arm – Key-points are correct visualization of an endless stream of energy going from belly button through your body to the arm and past the finger tips.
– Heavy elbow – Key-points are relax the shoulder and imagine a force like magnet sucking your elbow down, take your mind off the muscles. Just focus on the necessary visualization.

EXERCISES

Do practice by yourself besides coming to class. For some of these grip-escapes, the following are concepts are very very important:
– Stay relaxed
– No telegraphs. Don’t give your partner any indication of what you are about to do.
– Identify partner’s vulnerabilities. For example: Where is his thumb? What parts of my body can I still move even though my wrist is being held?
– Identify what stays and what moves. Understanding this can make a huge difference in the mechanics and therefore how effectively you perform the technique.

SIDE NOTES

 1. Class Logistics and Participation: Arrive around 8:45 for the warm-up. Review the notes on this website beforehand, write down any questions you have, and bring them to class. These extra 10–15 minutes are for Q&A, warm-up, and sometimes partner practice.

 2. Course Focus and Audience: Training is practical, non-sport self-defense methods oriented towards females and seniors. You will learn non-escalating responses to aggressive grabs and yanks. The techniques are used as vehicles for teaching underlying concepts. The priority is developing conceptual understanding. You will gain the ability to identify and correct errors, rather than simply imitating techniques.

 3. Safety and Partner Drill Protocols: The emphasis is on reaction and understanding, rather than cardio or muscle activation. During partner drills, calibrate the intensity to your partner’s ability. Ask permission before increasing the force—for example, “Can I grab harder?” Avoid overwhelming your partner, and communicate about grip strength: “Is this too hard, or am I too soft?”

4. Functional Fitness – If you have never taken the Martial Gym Functional Fitness class, you should try it at least once. It teaches you how to manage some of the common problems we experience, such as shoulder tension, lower-back discomfort, and difficulty sitting down and getting back up. We also cover ways to release tension through massage.

The class also teaches you how to fall properly in order to reduce the risk of injury. Even with common exercises such as stretching, there are details that are often overlooked, which can reduce the intended benefits of the exercise.